Category Archives: bowen family systems theory

Back to basics: The Triangle 5

We continue the series on basic concepts in Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST). Today’s question:How does our family of origin influence how we function in triangles?

Posted in bowen family systems theory, congregational life, leadership, personal growth | Tagged , , | 2 Comments

Back to basics: The Triangle 4

We continue the series on basic concepts in Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST). Today’s question: Are there “healthy” and “unhealthy” triangles (or ways of being in key triangles)? If so, what’s the difference?

Posted in bowen family systems theory, congregational life, leadership | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Back to basics: The Triangle 4

Back to basics: The Triangle 3

We continue the series on basic concepts in Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST). Today’s question: What are some misundertandings about triangles? Some of the most common misunderstandings about triangles I hear are:

Posted in bowen family systems theory, congregational life, leadership | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Back to basics: The Triangle 3

Back to basics: The Triangle 2

We continue the series on basic concepts in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Today’s question: What are common triangles in a church and organizational life? The list can be almost endless:

Posted in bowen family systems theory, congregational life, leadership | Tagged , , | 2 Comments

Back to basics: The Triangle 1

A story is told of legendary Packers football coach Vince Lombardi, whose toughness and demand for excellence turned the losing Green Bay football team into a championship organization. The story goes that after a particularly dismal practice he halted the … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, leadership | Tagged , , | 2 Comments

Can you see triangles?

A couple of times in my past I’ve gotten hit on the head hard enough to see spots. One time, blindsided by two linesmen in a game of football who came at me from either side, I saw swirling spots. … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, leadership, personal growth | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Can you see triangles?

The brain and learning, 6

Today’s brain and learning concept: the brain learns through conscious and unconscious processes. A great deal of the insights we acquire and the patterns that we grasp are a consequence of ongoing unconscious processing, perhaps more than we realize or … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, Christian Education, development theory, personal growth, teaching | Tagged , , , , , , | 1 Comment

The brain and learning, 5

Today’s brain and learning concept: the brain perceives and creates parts and wholes. The brain has two separate but simultaneous tendencies for organizing information. One is to reduce information to parts. The other is to perceive and work with information … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, children, Christian Education, teaching | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

The brain and learning, 2

Today’s brain and learning concept: the brain is social. Bowen systems theory and developmental psychologists stress that individuals must always be seen as integral parts of larger social systems. Part of our identity depends on establishing community and finding ways … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, Christian Education, development theory, personal growth, teaching | Tagged , , , , , | 3 Comments

Five just plain wrong notions about leadership

On occasion I find myself startled at hearing a persistent wrong notion that just won’t go away. These notions are sometimes overheard in informal conversation, but sometimes they are offered in lectures or presentations. I don’t doubt that the people … Continue reading

Posted in bowen family systems theory, leadership | Tagged , , | 2 Comments