I receive an e-mail from a church staff member about that perennial problem: the pushy parent. It comes in all forms. Parents want allowances or exceptions for their “special” child, their “superior” child, or their “tender” child. They want the child advanced a grade, put in the “smart” class, held back a grade, or, put into the same group with their “special little friends.” Once, when I was a school principle a parent insisted on us putting her twin daughters in the same class all through grade school—and, requested that they always sit next to each other. There was no thought about encouraging individuation on the part of that mom!
[Read more...]