{"id":3247,"date":"2026-02-02T12:28:57","date_gmt":"2026-02-02T16:28:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grace-ed.org\/blog\/?p=3247"},"modified":"2026-02-02T12:29:59","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T16:29:59","slug":"emotional-integration-in-organizations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/grace-ed.org\/blog\/archives\/3247","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Integration in Organizations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At the conclusion to a recent presentation on leadership in organizations someone asked, &#8220;How  would you define emotional integration in  an organization?&#8221; While I did not  use that phrase in my presentation, it was a good question.  <\/p>\n<p>The  term integration refers to a unification toward a  whole.  The term  &#8220;emotional&#8221; was in reference  to Bowen theory. In that context  &#8220;emotional system&#8221; refers not primarily to feelings, rather it describes the evolutionary automatic instincts and dynamics that govern biological life, including how they influence the way  people function in relationships.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>For humans,  these evolutionary biological  instincts and dynamics are mediated by the unique  capacities of  the  human species, including cognition, self-determination, agency,  values and belief  systems.  Among those, two of the most influential instincts are work in organizations are the togetherness- individuality instincts. Influenced by anxiety, these instincts manifest in people herding for protection and safety or moving toward individuality for emotional distance. <\/p>\n<p>So how might one answer  the question  about emotional  integration in an  organization\u2014a business, a congregation, an educational organization? For starters one will need to extrapolate the  concepts of the theory whose  origin is in biological family systems.  That should not be difficulty  given Bowen&#8217;s assertion  that \u201cThe patterns of all emotional systems are the same whether they be family systems, work systems, or social systems, the only difference being one of intensity\u201d (Bowen 1978, p. 485).<\/p>\n<p><b>Emotional Integration in Organizations<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>We can posit that emotional  integration in  organizations  involves at least three things:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>To the extent persons and functions in the organization are focused on, and pulling together  to realize the organization&#8217;s mission\n<\/li>\n<li>To the extent that the persons in the organization consistently function out of shared corporate values and the governing principles and  ethos of its field\n<\/li>\n<li>To the extent there is a  healthy balance between the pulls  toward togetherness and individuality. Both are needed in  an organization. There is a need to be a team, to  feel part of the  group, to share in the culture that is the  glue that makes things work. At the same time every  organization needs to allow people freedom to practice agency, to express individuality, to dissent, to pursue personal goals within the mission of the organization, and to practice innovation in the  face of the pernicious  attitude,  &#8220;We&#8217;ve never done it that way.&#8221;\n<p>What would you add to the list of what constitutes &#8220;emotional integration&#8221; in an  organization?<\/p>\n<p><b>Israel Galindo<\/b> directs the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctsnet.edu\/academics\/lifelong-learning\/pastoral-excellence-programs-courses\/ \">Pastoral Excellence Program<\/a> of the Center for Lifelong Learning at Columbia seminary. He is the author of the bestseller,\u00a0<a href=\"[http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/The-Hidden-Lives-Congregations-Discerning\/dp\/1566993075\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1383754843&amp;amp;sr=8-1&amp;amp;keywords=hidden+lives+of+congregations](http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/The-Hidden-Lives-Congregations-Discerning\/dp\/1566993075\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1383754843&#038;sr=8-1&#038;keywords=hidden%2Blives%2Bof%2Bcongregations)\">The Hidden Lives of Congregations<\/a>\u00a0(Alban),\u00a0<a href=\"[http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Perspectives-Congregational-Leadership-effective-leadership-ebook\/dp\/B00D4Z4NX8\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1383754894&amp;amp;sr=1-1&amp;amp;keywords=perspectives+on+congregational+leadership](http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Perspectives-Congregational-Leadership-effective-leadership-ebook\/dp\/B00D4Z4NX8\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&#038;ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1383754894&#038;sr=1-1&#038;keywords=perspectives%2Bon%2Bcongregational%2Bleadership)\">Perspectives on Congregational Leadership<\/a>\u00a0(Educational Consultants), and<a href=\"[http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Family-Genogram-Workbook-Israel-Galindo\/dp\/097157653X\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1387558724&amp;amp;sr=8-1&amp;amp;keywords=a+family+genogram+workbook](http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Family-Genogram-Workbook-Israel-Galindo\/dp\/097157653X\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1387558724&#038;sr=8-1&#038;keywords=a%2Bfamily%2Bgenogram%2Bworkbook)\">\u00a0A Family Genogram Workbook<\/a>\u00a0(Educational Consultants), with Elaine Boomer &#038; Don Reagan, and <a href=\"[https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Leadership-Ministry-Theory-Congregational-Context-ebook\/dp\/B071JJCJHZ\/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1498512317&#038;sr=8-3&#038;keywords=israel+galindo](https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Leadership-Ministry-Theory-Congregational-Context-ebook\/dp\/B071JJCJHZ\/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1498512317&#038;sr=8-3&#038;keywords=israel%2Bgalindo)\">Leadership in Ministry: Bowen Theory in the Congregational Context.<\/a>\n<\/p>\n<p><div>His books on education include <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Academic-Leadership-Practical-Wisdom-Administrators-ebook\/dp\/B08GDSPPKF\/ref=sr_1_12?dchild=1&#038;keywords=israel+galindo&#038;qid=1606576939&#038;sr=8-12 \">Academic Leadership: Practical Wisdom for Deans and Administartors, <\/a><a href=\"[http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mastering-Art-Instruction-Essential-Instructional-ebook\/dp\/B00ZJ59CD2\/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1434419375&#038;sr=8-5&#038;keywords=israel+galindo&#038;pebp=1434419372650&#038;perid=9973E8EDD92140D086CC](http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mastering-Art-Instruction-Essential-Instructional-ebook\/dp\/B00ZJ59CD2\/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1434419375&#038;sr=8-5&#038;keywords=israel%2Bgalindo&#038;pebp=1434419372650&#038;perid=9973E8EDD92140D086CC) \">Mastering the Art of Instruction,<\/a><a href=\"[http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Craft-Christian-Teaching-Essentials-Becoming-ebook\/dp\/B002RDDOSI\/ref=sr_1_7?s=books&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1399985521&amp;amp;sr=1-7&amp;amp;keywords=israel+galindo](http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Craft-Christian-Teaching-Essentials-Becoming-ebook\/dp\/B002RDDOSI\/ref=sr_1_7?s=books&#038;ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1399985521&#038;sr=1-7&#038;keywords=israel%2Bgalindo)\">The Craft of Christian Teaching<\/a>\u00a0(Judson),\u00a0and <a href=\" [https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Planning-Christian-Education-Formation-Community-ebook\/dp\/B005N7CDVO\/ref=sr_1_13?keywords=israel+galindo&#038;qid=1563457405&#038;s=gateway&#038;sr=8-13](https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Planning-Christian-Education-Formation-Community-ebook\/dp\/B005N7CDVO\/ref=sr_1_13?keywords=israel%2Bgalindo&#038;qid=1563457405&#038;s=gateway&#038;sr=8-13)\"> Planning for Christian Education Formation<\/a> (Chalice Press).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At the conclusion to a recent presentation on leadership in organizations someone asked, &#8220;How would you define emotional integration in an organization?&#8221; While I did not use that phrase in my presentation, it was a good question. 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