I’d no sooner sat down to lunch at a recent conference, at which I presented on Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST), than a participant asked, “Can I ask you a question?”
“Sure,” I said, wondering what answer I’d have to compose while munching on my sandwich.
“How do you reconcile Bowen family systems theory with individualistic personality type theories like the Enneagram?”
In case you don’t recognize it, that’s a loaded question. I’d probably mentioned the Enneagram as an aside during one of my presentations. My lunch companion was echoing a question often raised in certain circles.
I playfully, responded, “Are you a BFST purist? Because I’ve heard they can be snobbish.”
She chuckled, getting the joke, which was a good sign. It meant she may be receptive to a reasoned (if not reasonable) answer.
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